Insights

[macdobhran]

If you know that someone is speaking badly of you behind your back, and if you react to that negativity with a feeling of hurt, then you destroy your own peace of mind. One's pain is one's own creation. One should treat such things as if they are wind behind one's ear. In other words, just brush them aside. To a large extent, whether or not one suffers pain depends on how one responds to a given situation. What makes a difference is whether or not one is too sensitive and takes things too seriously.

Comments

[cellymcfae.livejournal.com]

*sigh* I've gotten SOOO much better at this over the years, but I still have so far to go. Thanks for the reminder, sweetie. *smooch*

[pyrategrrl.livejournal.com]

completely OT, but do you have an evening free for dinner next week? *smooch*

[pyrategrrl.livejournal.com]

*G* its a work in progress, as i learn to let go of my investment in what goes on inside other peoples heads.

[im-geva.livejournal.com]

I meant to thank you last week, then forgot.

I really like these insights each day, thanks for taking the time to post them.

I especially like this one, it's a good reminder to stay centered.