7 Habits

[macdobhran]

• To try to change outward attitudes and behaviors does very little good in the long run if we fail to examine the basic paradigms from which these attitudes flow.

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[queenmaggie.livejournal.com]

OTOH, I have known cases when you can't change the way you feel, but you can change how you act about it, and the act influences the feelings to change. ('pretend a virtue, even if you have it not' -rough paraphrase)